Gonzalo, we hear you
i am in full agreement with the comments AlastairC has posted. Especially 3 and 4. Consider them.
I have been where you are, reading, searching, analyzing, worrying and thinking. I finally realized that my situation was so atypical that no research study would answer my questions. What I had forgotten was the world of clinical experience that physicians have, over and above the published research. The answers concerning what to do are informed not only by the literature but more importantly by the real world of clinical experience. When I realized this I gave up trying to second guess what was happening. And yes, I have discussed this with my oncologist.
in addition to focusing on what you can control, and taking your medications, it is important that you access the best medical advice you can. To me this means someone with a central interest in CML and leukemia. It is important to have a physician who not only knows the literature but ,as important, has clinical depth in CML and has colleagues to consult with. One who is not stunned by unicorns and who one can talk to. I am fortunate in this. I am in the US and am a patient at the Mayo Clinic. My physician is a Fellow in Oncology-Hematology and under a senior Oncologist-Hematologist . I know that decisions in my case are discussed by the group of physicians he is part of. As a result I do not worry if he is doing the right thing. For a constant worrier like me this is a big relief.
I am also fortunate in that I am old enough to be covered by Medicare in the US, although the cost of the medication, even with insurance is obscene. My daughter keeps saying this is why I saved for my old age...but it is Not why I saved. There are things I want to do.
I do not know where you are geographically, or in terms of insurance, but if you can be comfortable and secure with your physician that will go a long way to helping you on this journey we are on.
i have found the posts on this website wise and wonderful and sometimes irritating but always helpful and supportive. I am so grateful it exists and is so well managed. I am sure it will help you as it has helped me get through the early stages of a CML diagnosis and then go forward.
Please keep us informed on what is happening.
I am sure you will have many, many years with your children. How do I know? Because I am old and I plan to see my grandchildren grow up.
Best wishes Gitel