HI Sarah,
I followed a similar path to you with imatinib not working for me and then switch to Dasatinib and severe myelosuppression followed. I did not have a mutation test, but my doctor felt I had a "variation" that is common in CML (lots of bcr-abl clones) and that he wanted to give dasatinib time to work through a pulsing mechanism.
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2503652/
Take a look at table 2 and you will see your mutation listed on the left. Note how dasatnib has a very good impact on it vs imatinib and nilotinib. The odds of dasatinib working for you are high. But first you have to get over the myelosuppression issues and also to make sure you are not in accelerated phase.
What are your blast cell counts? if below 5% or so, you are chronic phase and have time to experiment to get the dose correct and your myelosuppression stabilized. In fact, you have months where you can do this. If your blast counts are high - that's a different concern.
What my doctor did and I augmented his protocol was to "pulse" my therapy, lowering dose each time. I was never started on 100 mg dasatinib. If you are at that dose it needs to be cut in half the next time you re-start. It is o.k. to go off drug then back on drug while your myelosuppression is being addressed. It is VITAL that you are checked weekly for CBC. Once your neutrophils, platelets or whichever blood cell is suppressed (most likely neutrophils), you have to wait for those counts to recover to near normal. Then you restart dasatinib on the lower dose. One week later, get tested again for blood counts. You don't need a PCR each time. You need a stable blood system. Once you can stay on drug and blood counts are stable and probably rising, that's when you get a new baseline PCR (or FISH if your PCR > 1%). Chances are it will be lower anyway.
I take 20 mg dasatinib and I am PCRU. I want to repeat this. I achieved "undetected" status while only taking 20 mg dasatinib. I was shocked that less was better in my case. My doctor (who is one of four top researchers in the world for CML) explained that dasatinib is a kind of threshold drug. It's very powerful and has a half-life in the blood of only 5 hours. When it works it works. More is not better. More is worse. Key is to find your threshold. Some people need a lot more drug - most don't. In fact, more leads to blood suppression, pleural effusions and immune suppression which can actually counteract the impact. It's not a linear response. The less dasatinib I took, the faster my PCR dropped (along with other reasons). I have no side effects I can feel. I still live with some myelosuppression (red blood cells), my so-called new normal.
Be prudent and pro-active. You will get there. But you need to be sure and get weekly blood tests so you can re-start dasatinib as soon as possible.